While in middle school, I had to stay after classes had ended for tutorials in English grammar. I cannot recall now if that was because I incorrectly wrote my homework or quizzes, or if it was because I asked questions that the teacher could not answer fully before having to move on through the lesson. I do remember one week when all I did after school was practice how to distinguish an adjectival from an adverbial prepositional phrase. Once I got that down, something clicked. Grammar became not only an interest but also more closely aligned with the way I thought -- or how I thought about how I thought. This tendency only increased when I began to learn foreign languages, which in turn enhanced my understanding of English grammar.
Among other things, I was drawn by grammar to the conventional nature of language. I am not sure whether I was taught or simply caught prescriptivism, the notion that grammar does not merely reflect language usage but specifies what it should be. Proper grammar is how people ought to employ language. Inasmuch as there was an obligatory element to grammar, there was a moral dimension to it for me: This is not only how others ought to speak and write, which is how we got the grammar rules I was learning, but also how I myself ought to speak and write.
What is more, if I could speak and write in such a fashion, other people, because of our shared convention, would understand me and trust me not only to communicate but also as a communicator. Well-executed grammar would say something about me, about my person, about my character. Not splitting my infinitives could suggest that I would likely not divide my loyalty. Faithfulness in small things would augur faithfulness in larger things. If I were trustworthy in my communication by following shared conventions, I would be trustworthy in the rest of my life by adhering to that shared life.
To be sure, I may not have been able to articulate all of this explicitly at the time, but I can safely say now that this was to a significant degree how I thought and felt then. This understanding is similar to thoughts that appear in a previous post on the
usefulness of grammar in the workplace. A main point of that post, of the person quoted in it, and of my remarks above relates to the third of James Q. Wilson's moral sensibilities: self-control.
In this continuation of my series of posts on Prof. Wilson's book The Moral Sense, I offer mostly a descriptive recapitulation of his main ideas, because I find myself agreeing generally with him. For those who wish to become familiar with his ideas but who do not have time or inclination to read the book itself, such a recap may be useful. In this vein, I touch briefly below on (i) what self-control is and why it is moral, (ii) some historical perspective, and (iii) addiction and morality. Lastly (iv) I offer some additional reflections.